How to Survive An Affair Now-Sales
2008/11/13
Nicole A.
Brooklyn, NY
Phase I: Individual Healing - Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through Emotions
Phase I is all about you (both the injured and the cheater).
After the affair, your first instinct might be to look for reasons why the affair happened. You want to know the details of the affairs. You want to know why your loved one did what they did. You want to know if you will ever be able to trust your partner again.
This is what I call "externalizing." Externalizing means you are looking outside of yourself for answers to emotional issues that are happening within you. You might do this because you believe that finding the "reason" will help you heal.









